Friendship IRL: Real Talk About Friendship, Community, and What It Actually Takes
Alex Alexander
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The Secrets We Keep (For Our Friends)
• 25 minWhat do you do if a friend tells you something deeply personal? Maybe they're getting divorced, or they’re pregnant but haven’t publicly announced it. This week, I'm sharing a friendship boundary that Michael and I have held for years, including the kinds of things we don't share with each other, why some of our friends are shocked to learn we've kept their secrets for months (or years), and the role trust plays in building strong friendships, communities, and marriages. I know this is a hot take. But I think there's a difference between hiding something from your partner and holding something for your friend. This episode is sponsored by Slowly, a digital penpal app used by over 10 million people worldwide! If you’ve been looking for a low-pressure way to connect with someone completely outside your normal friendship circle, this is it. Exchange letters at your own pace, no small talk panic required. Download Slowly free and get 30% off Slowly Plus using my link: https://open.slowly.app/miXL/l8ei5iw6. In this episode you’ll hear about: The 3 categories of information I refuse to share, even when friends never ask to keep it privateWhy carrying a friend's secret can sometimes be emotionally heavy, and why it's still worth itThe surprising way trust spreads through friend groups when people realize you're someone who can keep a secretWhy "my spouse knows everything" can unintentionally come at the expense of trust in your friendshipsThe friendship philosophy that helps build strong individual relationships and a stronger marriageEpisode 2: How To Balance Friendship & Marriage Without Losing Yourself Episode 12: Digging Into The 3 Kinds of Friendship Roots Episode 100: How To Use the Wheel of Connection to Strengthen Your Support System This episode is sponsored by Slowly, a digital pen pal app used by over 10 million people worldwide. If you’ve been looking for a low-pressure way to connect with someone completely outside your normal friendship circle, this is it. Exchange letters at your own pace, no small talk panic required. Download Slowly free and get 30% off Slowly Plus using my link: https://open.slowly.app/miXL/l8ei5iw6 WANT MORE? My book, Are We Friends Yet? hits shelves June 16. Get on the waitlist for pre-order bonuses + a first look. Dive into The Connection Reset. A 10-day private podcast to help you see the abundance of connection that already exists in your day-to-day (Yes. Really. I promise you have more than you realize). Start today.
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